Have you ever stayed stuck on a decision not because you didn’t know what to do, but because you were afraid of getting it wrong? That fear has a way of looking like wisdom from the outside — but underneath it’s just keeping us still. This week we’re sitting with the truth that God works all things together for good, including our mistakes. And when we really believe that, it changes everything about how we move forward.
So God promises to restore and that includes our mistakes. The wrong turn we took, the decision we made with incomplete information, the thing we said that we can’t unsay or the opportunity we mishandled — Romans 8:28 tells us that God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. That All things includes everything, even the moments we’d rather forget.
Fully understanding this fact and living from it can change how you move through life. I’ve noticed that so many of us are quietly held back by the fear of getting it wrong. This could look like:
- We hesitate to make a decision because — what if it’s the wrong one?
- We hold back from trying because — what if we fail?
- We stay stuck in a safe middle ground because at least there, we can’t make a mistake that needs fixing.
And sometimes, it looks like wisdom from the outside, but underneath, it’s fear. Fear that if we get it wrong, the damage might be permanent — ultimately, it’s the fear that God can only work with our best moves and not our worst ones, so we must only present our best, or at least wait in the middle until we figure out how to do so.
But here’s something to consider: that safe middle ground has a name in Scripture. In Revelation 3:16, Jesus looks at a church that has done exactly this — stayed comfortable, stayed cautious, never fully in and never fully out — and He calls it lukewarm. Here Jesus says He would rather we be hot or cold than stuck somewhere in the middle. Lukewarm isn’t a safe place to be, it’s actually the place He warns us away from most directly.
It would be better to step out, pray, act, and get it wrong sometimes than stay comfortable and never move at all, because God can restore a mistake. He can work with a wrong turn but He can’t do much with a life that never left the starting line out of fear of stumbling.
Proverbs 24:16 says: “The righteous fall seven times and rise again.” What defines the righteous isn’t that they never fall — it’s that they keep getting back up. And the reason they can keep getting back up is because God is not done with them.
Let’s remember that God is not waiting for us to be perfect before He can use us. He is not thrown off by our missteps. He doesn’t look at our wrong turns and say — well, I can’t work with that. No, He works all things together, even the broken things — especially the broken things. And Philippians 1:6 seals it: He who began a good work in us will carry it to completion. He doesn’t abandon the project when we stumble, He sees it through.
So what does living from this actually look like?
It looks like moving. It looks like bringing our decisions to God in prayer first — laying out what we’re facing, asking for wisdom, listening — and then taking the step with confidence and trusting Him with whatever comes next. We don’t have to have every answer before we act. We pray, we move, and we release the outcome to the One who can redeem it either way.
We try the thing, we have the conversation, we make the call, and we release the need to get it perfect because God doesn’t need our perfection — He needs our willingness. And when we get it wrong, because we will at times, we bring it back to Him and He restores. That’s the promise.
This week, identify one thing you’ve been holding back on out of fear of getting it wrong. It doesn’t have to be big. Just one thing — a conversation, a decision, a step you’ve been circling but haven’t taken.
Bring it to God in prayer, tell Him what you’re afraid of, ask for wisdom, and then take the step, releasing the outcome to Him. We pray, we move, and we trust God with the outcome. That’s the practice.
I’d love to hear your thoughts or reflection on this message in the comments section below. Your perspective might just encourage someone else on their journey.
Next week, we’ll continue our series with God Promises a Future and a Hope. And if you missed our last post on God Promises Faithful Love, you can catch it here.
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Let’s stay rooted in Christ my friend,
Founder of Rooted Living
On a Mission to help 1 million women live rooted in Christ
2 comments
This is a chain-breaking line to release people into freedom: it’s the fear that God can only work with our best moves and not our worst ones, so we must only present our best, or at least wait in the middle until we figure out how to do so. Thank you for sharing this.
Yes, it's so freeing to release that fear of perfectionism.